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Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Establishing the Relationship of the Adolescents with Different Members of the Society

Human beings are social in nature. They cannot live alone. Family is a small unit of society. A person as he/she moves along the way of his life growing in age, has to depend on various persons of the family in particular and of the society in general. For such dependence, one has to exchange one's ideas and maintain contacts with others.

It is this action which in a single word can be termed as social relationship. The relationship is of paramount importance in the life of human being. At the very beginning of life, it is found that survival of a child is impossible unless it gets assistance from the other members of the family. It has to depend on others in order to fulfil its various needs. The child first establishes its relationship with its mother, then gradually with father, brothers and sisters and other members of the family. During the later stages it has to establish social relationship gradually in the larger society outside the family. It is observed that not a single human being can live without such social relationship. Even the fundamental needs of the child cannot be fulfilled without the help of others. Thereafter consultation and helping one another are necessary in order to express one's own sorrows and pleasures. A human being is needed to cooperate with others in order to minimize his/her sorrows and sufferings.

Without the cooperation of others, it too becomes impossible for a person to become self-dependent. So, in fine, it can be said that everyone has to cooperate with others in every stage of life facing all the disadvantages of life in order to make life meaningful. Otherwise life will become meaningless. Such an essential social relationship flows towards various directions. Sometimes due to this relationship, a person is found to depend completely on others. An infant, a child depends solely upon the elders of the family. Sometimes, this relationship exists in the form of exchanges or transactions, such as, when the children grow up, they cooperate with each other.

Sometimes, the relationship is based on respect and love. It can be said that relationship with teachers, too, involves transaction or give and take and exchange of ideas and expression of respect. Likewise, there is the relationship with friends of contemporary age and with neighbours.

However, in order to make one's life meaningful, one has to live in close contact with various persons of the society. In this way the social relationship builds. But a person has to acquire certain virtue or to follow some general principles in order to establish such social relationship and maintain healthy contacts. These are as following.

The principles of good relationship
1. The principles of transactions: A person has to follow the principle of transaction in order to establish relationship. It is in this way that transactions, exchange of ideas and maintaining mutual contact is possible.

2. Cooperation: One has to have a sense of cooperation within oneself. If one has a feeling of helping only oneself, it makes one self- centered rather than social if such a feeling crosses certain limits. Most of the time, it creates jealousy and unhealthy competition among the competitors, thus removes the very possibility of good relationship.

3. Sympathy: Sympathy is yet another principal virtue one should posses in establishing social relationship. It is difficult to become social if sympathy cannot be shown to others during their sorrows and troubles while going along in the society.

4. Unselfishness: Another important aspect in establishing social relationship is getting rid of selfishness. It becomes difficult for a person to establish relations with others if he/she keeps himself/ her busy in his/her own interests. Relation becomes normal through reaching an understanding when any complex situation arises.

5. Human Virtues: Besides, it becomes easy to establish good relations with various personalities of the family if the human virtues such as respect, affection, submissiveness, etiquette, etc. are exercised in time. It is necessary to mention here that every social relation in respect of place, time and person is equally important if one has to live in any society. The detailed discussion is made in this chapter on aspects related to establish relations of teenagers with teachers, friends of contemporary age and neighbors.

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